For Richer, for Poorer: How Hardships and Poverty can Benefit your Marriage By Cara E. Ruegg image found here A lot of friends, acquaintances, and some strangers too were very concerned that my husband and I planned on marrying when we weren’t too financially secure, with him working part-time and studying full-time. They talked to me about how my marriage would fall to pieces before it even begun because the stress would be too much, how I’d starve, how this was a cruel thing for me to consider with a child looming in the future (even though his planned graduation was 8 months away from our marriage date). When I told my family though, they had the opposite reaction: nonchalance. Oh, so you’re going to struggle a little bit? Oh, so you’re starting out with scraps. Well, when I married your grandpa… and then the story of true poverty, starting out with nothing in a foreign country came out. I suppose, this is what you get being second generation American. S